<ankh> wrote:But its just as much disrespect if you don't help somebody who from your own realm who asks for help. Tbh, I think its worse to ignore your own realmates than it is to refuse to add just because the guy from the other realm is concidered to be "a fair minded soloer".
I'm not saying that you shouldnt respect the other realms players.
/Ankh
I would never add just because someone who picked the same realm as me want me to, doesn't matter how many hugs he/she would give me.
For others it might depend, now with cluster most of the people do play two realms. For example, if I see a a fight between a midgardian and a hibernian, the midgardian is a friend of mine and I know he dislikes adding, would I add because the hibernian want me to? No, because then I would be ignoring my midgardian realmate but at the same time if I didn't add I would have ignored my hibernian realmate.
Good solution for those who run out solo and want people to add on you. Don't run solo, run in groups it will help you and it will help those who wants clean 1vs1 fights.