Jarahl,
well to be very honest your doing a great job already!
Like I said the eggy thing can be water under the bridge as far as most people are concerned it is the policy that would be of most benefit to talk about. The fact that you did not add for a while shows you guys are having a lot of shit about this and that is very very wrong imo. However the point might be that a) your guild is very big (I am betting its a right laugh as well

) b) the policy you have (if it is as eggy stated in his personal post) is very very inconsistent.
Paul indicated at the best way to see this already in this thread. Saying you like a 3 way fight and will actively go out and seek it to the detriment of Hibs and Mids is to say you have a policy that is biased and selective. So then complain about the fact that people do add shows that adding and 3 way fights are not always great fun - perhaps that is because when you don't get the jump getting dumped on in the middle of a nice fight can really spoil something good.
As a mid level guild group that really can struggle some nights to have your high rr guild hitting us up the bakside is not a 3 way fight it is a simple massacre. Accidents do happen Jarahl but when you have such an active guild like yours it can go on time after time. In all of this we will not do the same to you not because we respect your policy (note its the policy I am talking about) but because we respect the Mids who are fighting you. It is depressing because I know people from your guild in game and they are a cool bunch it would be nice if that one issue could be sorted out.
Maybe Crom and others can tell you what happened on Pryd a while back and how it was turned around? All you have to do is ask and hopefully people will cut you some slack on the forums and in game.
So to reiterate the policy of only adding on Hibs and Mid fights (as eggy described it) allows you to have the best of both worlds especially when people will not add back. You say that people still do it - it is because of the lack of eveness of the policy and the fact that you as a very large prominent guild do impact on a lot of people.
Of course you pay your subs and of course your great people but the rules by which you govern yourselves can and do suck. Hopefully by saying this in a non flame way you will see that none of this is a personal attack on you or your guild it is an expression of disquiet at a biased policy. I would invite eggy and beeks to come here and chat if they can provide positive input without flames and if they can not take this personally. If you are acting as an ambassador for the guild you are a great example of someone we can share our views with.
None of this means you have to change anything either. I just hope you can see why it can hurt especially more casual people.
kind regards and thanks
Sharkith