Keep Lenah in DAoC!!

pikeh · Post by **pikeh** » Tue May 10, 2005 8:41 pm

there is no way you can keep someone in game just becuase you want them to stay, its unethical and can be seen as a form of bullying. Lenah has been a great inspiration to the whole community and i respect her descision to leave, and maybe you should too. /respect lenah and GL with whatever you choose to do. If daoc dosent make you happy anymore, stop playing it, its as simple as that.

Bourkey · Post by **Bourkey** » Tue May 10, 2005 9:05 pm

pikeh wrote:there is no way you can keep someone in game just becuase you want them to stay, its unethical and can be seen as a form of bullying. Lenah has been a great inspiration to the whole community and i respect her descision to leave, and maybe you should too. /respect lenah and GL with whatever you choose to do. If daoc dosent make you happy anymore, stop playing it, its as simple as that.

Your taking the thread far to seriously.

Asterixxx · Post by **Asterixxx** » Tue May 10, 2005 9:32 pm

yes mate far too seriously lol. i was talking to lenah and said ' im going to start a Keep Lenah in DAoC' post on prydwen. and so i did.
dont take it to heart pikeh its meant more as a make Lenah blush lots thread ok

pikeh · Post by **pikeh** » Tue May 10, 2005 9:42 pm

i think you took my post a bit to seriously as well. oh well, i was just saying that its probably not very fair to make a thread where everyone who she will miss just says "dont go" when she might have plans or whatever.

VidX · Post by **VidX** » Tue May 10, 2005 10:49 pm

If Lenah leaves I might have to start leading raids again, and that can't happen

For starters I've no time due to work

/em signs petition!

Sharkith · Post by **Sharkith** » Tue May 10, 2005 11:56 pm

Argyleyn wrote:People have lots of reasons to quit a mmorpg, if it involves some sort of silly argument over toa/rvr/whatever ingame then don't leave, if it involves being bored with the game or the game taking too much time of her life, then wish her a happy real life and let her go

First off please don't leave - what would we do without the Mistress of Hibernia??

Secondly Argyleyn please pm Killsimba who is about to leave because of Nobly pride members stealing an already pulled mob from him earlier today. He is a good friend and needs a bit of support.

Sharkith

Lenah · Post by **Lenah** » Wed May 11, 2005 7:03 am

Euuhmm ... wh000t?

*blush*

Few words from behind the silence ... I've been playing 12 hours plus every single day past 5-6 months now, giving the utmost everything to the daoc community and its been wonderfull time! I've so loved the feeling of being in charge lol =) And the support that my "Do you need..." - raids have been getting =) I can see that many have tried to copy it recently too heh, finally I've made difference aswell, people realize that "I want to help all to get AT" > "I need help with AT", wich is awesome to see. I have made tons of new friends, more than I could even really remember by name and its been great time. Anyway ...

During the constant playing of daoc, in the climax of addiction, I've failed to take care of some important things in real life. The financial situation I have ended up, finally got too fucked up to be left unnoticed. I quit going school somewhere 1,5 years ago when leading Mirage took all my time, and left work aprox a year ago, bit before joinin Chosen and starting this raid madness. Took me that about a year to stop for a second, watch back and notice that the addiction has became illness, that is about to ruin all that is considered "a life". 3 Weeks ago I finally had strenght to say "no more raids, I need to get a job", I cannot upkeep even my internet, not to mention having food without seriously reconsidering the situation.

So what can I say. Before I end up in mental institution, where I should've been long ago tbh =)) I just had to take the step make life mean more than the community. Yes yes I'll do the damn SC orders!! That is all that I can say for sure at this point. I dont know how long it takes to get the job, I got some promising things hapening over here, but still all this has an impact of how much I can devote time to daoc community, and I'm sure it cannot be in same levels ever again. I'll keep my accounts open and be online as much as I can, I try even put a raid going when I get the time and feeling =)

In this same post I want to warn you friends. In any case, dont let your life go the way I did. The feeling of being needed, being wanted in nice community like this. The feeling of being noticed, adored and loved, its intoxicating!! It gives you SO much, that it can make you blind to all other things and thus too ill to see how your real life goes straight down the toilet.

I appriciate this post Asterixxx, and with my left hand I slap you into face =) You just made me continue more in daoc and I dont know if its for good or bad. =)

/cheer to everyone! /victory for Hibernia!

Quinlan · Post by **Quinlan** » Wed May 11, 2005 7:14 am

O wow 12 hours a day..jeez

Take a breather and dont log in till you have RL arranged imo. RL > Daoc

levelnix · Post by **levelnix** » Wed May 11, 2005 7:26 am

hi lenah /big hug
we had a big time in mirage and i respect you as
1 of the nicest,helpfully and best player i ever met.......
but first rule (in mirage) always was RL first remenber this pls
and get rl sorted and don t play any game for others (gitt,asterixx....)

cu levelnix

Ankh Morpork · Post by **Ankh Morpork** » Wed May 11, 2005 9:03 am

It's not really a matter of what Lenah want anyway... hibernia > lenah..its as easy as that. If we say you are to play, you play. If we say jump you say how high

/Ankh