zYnc wrote:So am I getting this right, a community of which I've been part of for the last 3 years wants me to sod off to FH just because I got another view of whats fun in RvR? 'Nice' community.
No zYnc I don't think people are posting you to FH because of your opinions, I think the problem people are having is the somewhat antisocial attitude that accuses people of leaching when all they're trying to do is help you win a fight against the enemies of the realm.
And this is not off-topic because there is a manners issue at the bottom of this - is it manners to join in a frontiers fight uninvited? Is it manners to ask people who join in a fight not to do so (well the manner of asking is a matter of manners)? Is it manners to call people hypocrits?
Briannon wrote:And this is not off-topic because there is a manners issue at the bottom of this - is it manners to join in a frontiers fight uninvited? Is it manners to ask people who join in a fight not to do so (well the manner of asking is a matter of manners)? Is it manners to call people hypocrits?
The off-topic i was thinking of was the discussion of add or no add-thing, the topic of this thread was about peeps not treating others with respect. Not if they had added or not in some fight. Tho the example the author mentioned was an adding case or something.
Briannon wrote:And this is not off-topic because there is a manners issue at the bottom of this - is it manners to join in a frontiers fight uninvited? Is it manners to ask people who join in a fight not to do so (well the manner of asking is a matter of manners)? Is it manners to call people hypocrits?
Spot on Briannon, it's matter of which 'side' your on though. Trying to understand what other people want instead of enforcing your own personal playstyle upon them is a good start.
zYnc wrote:Spot on Briannon, it's matter of which 'side' your on though. Trying to understand what other people want instead of enforcing your own personal playstyle upon them is a good start.
But the issue is how u say it imo, if u add on a fight as ur thinking their in deep shait and need a hand and they tell u to sod off, or they can tell u to plz don't add on us. How would u prefer to be told not to add?
As i have understand the topic and first post, it was that thing that was the prob. The adding issue is a totally different matter.
Guinnessrules wrote:But the issue is how u say it imo, if u add on a fight as ur thinking their in deep shait and need a hand and they tell u to sod off, or they can tell u to plz don't add on us. How would u prefer to be told not to add?
As i have understand the topic and first post, it was that thing that was the prob. The adding issue is a totally different matter.
It doesn't bother me that much really, as long as it's not alot of 'noob', 'ffs' and 'foad' I'm mostly ok with it. Problem is I'm not sure people would find anything really acceptable to be told to not add.
zYnc wrote:It doesn't bother me that much really, as long as it's not alot of 'noob', 'ffs' and 'foad' I'm mostly ok with it. Problem is I'm not sure people would find anything really acceptable to be told to not add.
Not me neither, but some r more sensitive then others. For them my only advice is to set those that is rude on /ignore. Personally i know most comments out there r made in a state of anger and nothing else.
But some peeps just never can keep their manners and r always that rude. Those i could think of putting on ignore-list. If they irritate me enough that is.
I'm here to have fun playing a game, it is a waste of time for me when i'm bored.
zYnc wrote:Spot on Briannon, it's matter of which 'side' your on though. Trying to understand what other people want instead of enforcing your own personal playstyle upon them is a good start.
What made u think that