i think the saying goes "look before you leap"..
think before you post.. its the easiest thing in the world to react to an post/email/pm sound of ur temper and hit enter.
write a reply then sit on it for a few mins u dont have to be the next to reply as you may have missed something and in most cases reaction posts miss it all.
I generally try to get on with most people and if cant then i steer clear and let someone else take the steam and add my thoughts later, say what ive got to say then get out of the line of fire.
You dont have to reply.. and people are NOT the same in RL vegi contrary to what you may think.. come back in 10years time and see what you think then.. you havnt got enough life exp to make that judgement.
/regards
ps. I dont thinking posting pms of what you said to a person so that everybody else may see that is perhaps the wisest thing to do.. but your young and learning in life.
I prolly should just be quiet ....
its things like this that i'm talking about.Jiggs wrote:in a nutshell
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It's me basicly .. calm quiet individual irl .. then become a spamming <explicit delted>Banana wrote:i dont get it...
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I Prefer my internet self makes me say what i feeel instead of skulking in the shadows Loktah level 50 Blade Master RR2 l7 :mwahaha:
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Moleymoleymoley level 50 Mentalist RR4L5! :stir: *Magical Gesture*moley:
Darksaga level 50 Ranger RR7!! :ranger:
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Haduken WL level 50 RR3 l7
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Retired and Retarded
Master Of Spamming 
LOL Cernos.. wood u liste to urself... "social requirements" is all i hear out of the entire post...PLUS
"Online it's harder to pick up signals when what you're saying isn't going down very well and is causing anger or hurt. IRL you might back off and opt for tactical silence or change the subject because you can read the other persons body language and signals, online it just escalates because the subtle signals aren't there or because the terminally unimaginative can't be bothered with the subtleties of language and just pile straight in with "you suck"."
ALL THAT.. just proved my point, reread it plz
esspenahaly the part of "online it just escalates because the subtle signals aren't there or because the terminally unimaginative can't be bothered with the subtleties of language and just pile straight in with "you suck" this i really like.. becuase A) it basicly says the online u can feel feelings... yes? B) when someone know they arent gonna hurt someone.. what do they do.. they relax... C) when ur relax. ur more likely o show urself to the public then in ANY other way
Now plz.. try to prove ur own point from now on
"It's me basicly .. calm quiet individual irl .. then become a spamming <explicit delted> I Prefer my internet self makes me say what i feeel instead of skulking in the shadows"
Taken right outta the moleys mouth (that doesnt sound quite right)
1. Not afraid to be urself online becuase u know, A) ur never.. or doubtfuly ever gonna met the ppl from the net B) u consider em friends.. yet u get into fights really easly
2.i do agree with the statment that the FEELINGs cant be felt like u can feel em when ur standin next to em.. but that doesnt mean there not ur friend
3.not everybody on the net is a prick, yet.. some are.. and yet.. all it takes.. is one person.. to talk like a complete spanner to another.. and the victum condeems them all... all of us.. for something we couldnt have ANY part it, and u lot wonder WHY? well ill tell u why, cus if we cant live in a sesable community any longer then what is the point in even coming ON the net.. cus all the shit we get on the net we might aswell just log off for good an go look for a REAL fight.... atleast that way is doin ur body some good
(sigh... this coming from a person who hasnt steped foot outside his door all weekend...)
again.. misunderstands are bound to happen banana.. so just let them be.. if they cant understand my view point on this.. then thats not ur problem mate.. an neather is it mine
Altho i will say this.. it does sound like a flame.. but its not.. its me just thinking outload.. but instead of saying it... im typeing it,...that was actually explained... really well.. and with the least ammount of confusion ever.... sweet
*edit*
norcott
I not only have enough life experiance... but ive had enough
u dont seem to get it... the way ppl act on the net... is them, they arent afraid to voice there opinion (or atleast they shouldnt be) and the person they are on the net... is still inside them every time u talk to em in real life.. they just dont want to show that side of em cus there to scared that they will be fingered out and they loss there friends... an blah blah blah.. the buttom line is... is doesnt matter if they ACT the same in real life then on the net... the person they are on the net STILL lives inside em in real life.. they just to scared to admit it
an i, will be.. the first one to actually say.. the the way i am on the net, still lives inside me in real life.. im jsut to scared to voice it to the public in real life (other then the fact that id PROBABLY... and most LIKELY be throwen in a mental assilum... but thats besides the point)
example.....example.....
there we go... I love you Norcott, I love you Banana, I love you satyn, I love you kesxex,I love you landra...isl...Bel...aran...moley...jupiler....MURT!!(an yes i still remember Murt)
Now.. how do U know there isnt genuin feelings behind those words?? but if i was to say them to u in real life the second i seen u... u eather A) wood completely ignore it or B) walk away..an never speak to me again
an i can quite comforable admit... here... real life.. or anywhere, that those words are true to there FULLEST, i am neather scared... nor to a "fear" social "requirements"... as, i dont care what ppl think of me.. if they like me.. then they like me... if they dont... well then thats there tough cookies, cus i ant changin for..anybody
an now im tired.. so im going to bed... night all
Veg Out.... (long post woodnt u say...?)
"Online it's harder to pick up signals when what you're saying isn't going down very well and is causing anger or hurt. IRL you might back off and opt for tactical silence or change the subject because you can read the other persons body language and signals, online it just escalates because the subtle signals aren't there or because the terminally unimaginative can't be bothered with the subtleties of language and just pile straight in with "you suck"."
ALL THAT.. just proved my point, reread it plz
esspenahaly the part of "online it just escalates because the subtle signals aren't there or because the terminally unimaginative can't be bothered with the subtleties of language and just pile straight in with "you suck" this i really like.. becuase A) it basicly says the online u can feel feelings... yes? B) when someone know they arent gonna hurt someone.. what do they do.. they relax... C) when ur relax. ur more likely o show urself to the public then in ANY other way
Now plz.. try to prove ur own point from now on
"It's me basicly .. calm quiet individual irl .. then become a spamming <explicit delted> I Prefer my internet self makes me say what i feeel instead of skulking in the shadows"
Taken right outta the moleys mouth (that doesnt sound quite right)
1. Not afraid to be urself online becuase u know, A) ur never.. or doubtfuly ever gonna met the ppl from the net B) u consider em friends.. yet u get into fights really easly
2.i do agree with the statment that the FEELINGs cant be felt like u can feel em when ur standin next to em.. but that doesnt mean there not ur friend
3.not everybody on the net is a prick, yet.. some are.. and yet.. all it takes.. is one person.. to talk like a complete spanner to another.. and the victum condeems them all... all of us.. for something we couldnt have ANY part it, and u lot wonder WHY? well ill tell u why, cus if we cant live in a sesable community any longer then what is the point in even coming ON the net.. cus all the shit we get on the net we might aswell just log off for good an go look for a REAL fight.... atleast that way is doin ur body some good
(sigh... this coming from a person who hasnt steped foot outside his door all weekend...)
again.. misunderstands are bound to happen banana.. so just let them be.. if they cant understand my view point on this.. then thats not ur problem mate.. an neather is it mine
Altho i will say this.. it does sound like a flame.. but its not.. its me just thinking outload.. but instead of saying it... im typeing it,...that was actually explained... really well.. and with the least ammount of confusion ever.... sweet
*edit*
norcott
I not only have enough life experiance... but ive had enough
u dont seem to get it... the way ppl act on the net... is them, they arent afraid to voice there opinion (or atleast they shouldnt be) and the person they are on the net... is still inside them every time u talk to em in real life.. they just dont want to show that side of em cus there to scared that they will be fingered out and they loss there friends... an blah blah blah.. the buttom line is... is doesnt matter if they ACT the same in real life then on the net... the person they are on the net STILL lives inside em in real life.. they just to scared to admit it
an i, will be.. the first one to actually say.. the the way i am on the net, still lives inside me in real life.. im jsut to scared to voice it to the public in real life (other then the fact that id PROBABLY... and most LIKELY be throwen in a mental assilum... but thats besides the point)
example.....example.....
there we go... I love you Norcott, I love you Banana, I love you satyn, I love you kesxex,I love you landra...isl...Bel...aran...moley...jupiler....MURT!!(an yes i still remember Murt)
Now.. how do U know there isnt genuin feelings behind those words?? but if i was to say them to u in real life the second i seen u... u eather A) wood completely ignore it or B) walk away..an never speak to me again
an i can quite comforable admit... here... real life.. or anywhere, that those words are true to there FULLEST, i am neather scared... nor to a "fear" social "requirements"... as, i dont care what ppl think of me.. if they like me.. then they like me... if they dont... well then thats there tough cookies, cus i ant changin for..anybody
an now im tired.. so im going to bed... night all
Veg Out.... (long post woodnt u say...?)
