Penlid wrote:Well reason is that i been pretty desperate for that arti for a bit now, and it was up this morning and there was nobody about to do it.Then i set a raid up to do it this afternoon and we failed and most peeps left, then a guildie of mine went and found some peeps to help and we killed it and we rolled i rolled 86 and nibs rolled 89 and with him actually doing it the night before i thought that he would just sell it. So i didnt give him and activated it , dumb i know.
I've apologised to everyone involved in the encounter and most have forgiven me , only a couple left including Adalyn and Nibs, guess it will take time. Meanwhile i got some GoV camping to do, once again sorry to all those involved.
The only person who's forgiveness matters is the person who was entitled to the arti. I would say that the others in the bg didn't exactly forgive you, they just didn't really care one way or another as they didn't lose anything. Also, you do realise that even if you were 100% certain that Nibs would sell it, he still won the roll.
I guess the moral of the story is that when doing artis, the raid leader needs to make sure they have set it up so they get bg loot and also clearly specify what the loot split rules are in advance.
Btw, you say that your first priority is getting ML 3 now, maybe you should make getting a replacement for Nibs, your top priority ?