On a more placatory note, my attitude to foreign languages probably comes from the fact that I'm an Englishman living in Switzerland, where there are 4 indigenous languages - Swiss German, French, Italian & Romansch. Most people speak at least 2 of those + English, & a smattering of various other languages like Serbo-Croatian, Bosnian, Spanish, Greek, Portuguese, Russian... So generally people get by by speaking a combination of different languages, which gives a useful insight into the cultures behind those languages.
When I played on the US servers I was in a Danish guild where most of the members didn't speak much English. It didn't bother me at all that they mostly spoke Danish & we got by with being friendly & tolerant & generally had a great time.
Now on Mid/Excalibur I'm in a Danish/English guild & again it doesn't bother me at all when the Danes speak Danish.
Recently I was on an ML raid & got invited to fill the last 2 spots in a group. When I joined one of them told me the other 6 were all Italians & only one of them spoke a very little English & they'd discussed for a long time wether or not they should invite me because they'd already invited 4 other people who had all left as soon as they found out it was an Italian group. I said it didn't bother me at all & for the first 10-15 minutes no-one said anything but eventually they relaxed & started chatting away in Italian. Of course I only understood about 10% but I helped them understand what the BG leader was saying & they sometimes tried to explain what they'd been talking about & really we all had a whale of a time
What I'm trying to say is that in a multilingual Europe a little tolerance towards people speaking their mother-language when they don't speak English goes a long way. I really don't think that an aggressive stance towards non-English speakers is the right way to go, nor do I think it actually accomplishes anything positive. I have made many friendships & acqaintances with non-English speakers over the years & it has greatly enriched my gaming & RL experience.
Of course there are many situations where it's greatly advantageous for people to understand each other instantly & perfectly, but I strongly feel that a friendly & tolerant attitude towards non-English speakers accomplishes a lot more than an aggressive intolerant attitude.
I have never felt that people were being disrespectful to me by not speaking English (especially when they don't speak English lol), in fact the opposite is true; I feel I have gained much by respecting peoples right to speak their own mother-tongue.
I can understand if people don't agree, but I thought it worthwhile to try & spead a little interlinguistic love & understanding
