well
you both didnt like it anyway so you prolly wont be as open as i was with liking it.
I like the fact that you dont feel like you need/want to level.
You can spend time farming or just general relaxing running about doing postal quests/pie deliverys. (you get xp with postal/pie quests).
The crafting .. i actually WANT to do it and resent any time i have to take off my pipe-weed empire..but i do take time off it cuz i want to do the stuff in my log.
You can aim to kill 30 wolves to get the title Fur-Cutter (as a hobbit - the races have diff titles) or not. You can group or solo.
Its well..just relaxing.
no other game offers pure relaxation

with all games you need to do stuff.
With this..even when you are and it might be hectic - you are relaxed.
And tbh.. ive never seen spiders drop from the ceeling on threads in any other game so this was a first for me
