Personally I think 99% of the time the modding is fine here (=very good/totally satisfactory), which is why I voted for option FOUR (4) - light modding including language. This is basically what we currently have 99% of the time (IMHO).
The other 1% of the time people get too hung up on options 1 or 2, although I've always seen that it is possible to discuss situations with our mods like adult human beings should be able to do & they have always responded in a manner which I would describe as reasonable, friendly & adult (assuming I was behaving in a similar way

). In fact, I think they go out of their way to do so.
COC ?
I breezed through it once in roughly 2.3 seconds.
I have almost no clue what is in it.
I suspect the same is also true for most posters ... even if they only read it through 10 minutes ago.
It goes in one eye & out the other.
Fine as a rough guideline but useless as a <insert religious document here>.